Prioritize your Family in a Way that Blesses Your Home

November 22, 2023
by Trisha Walker

As the famous saying goes, “Family comes first.” But in today’s fast-paced and chaotic world, it can be challenging to prioritize our loved ones amidst our busy schedules and never-ending to-do lists. However, making our family a top priority is crucial for building strong relationships and creating a happy and fulfilling life. So how do you prioritize your family in a way that blesses your home? Here are a few essential tips to help you get started.

Tip #1: Keep God First

One of the most crucial aspects of prioritizing your family is making sure that God is at the center of it all. We live in a society that often values success and material possessions over family and spirituality. However, taking the time to nurture your relationship with God will provide a solid foundation for your family. It allows you to have a faith-driven perspective, prioritizing love, compassion, and forgiveness over worldly desires. Make it a habit to pray together.  As my mother in-law used to tell Thomas and I, “When you pray together, you stay together”. By keeping God first, you are setting an example for your family and creating a harmonious and grounded home.

When you pray together, you stay together.

Tip #2: Your Spouse Comes Second

Marriage is a partnership, and just like any other relationship, it requires nurturing and effort. Many couples make the mistake of putting their children before their spouse, thinking it shows love and dedication. However, neglecting your marriage can lead to feelings of resentment, detachment, and even divorce. So make sure to prioritize your spouse's needs and take the time to go on date nights, have meaningful conversations, and show appreciation for one another. A strong marriage sets a positive example for your children and strengthens the family unit.

Personal Story:

About 11 years after marriage, Thomas and I had our third child.  Life at that time had a lot of stressors going on with work demands, parenting demands, in-law pressures, etc.  We were having a hard time connecting emotionally and physically.  Thomas had already been watching porn occasionally but now he wanted me to watch it with him and act out some of the scenes.  I was trying to please him and make him happy, so by opening this door to pornography in my life, it started leading us down a dark tunnel where I began compromising my relationship with God and the standards that I had for myself in order to try to please my husband.  At one point, I realized how I was actually putting pleasing my husband above my worship to my God.  For example, I was sacrificing my values, opening the door to certain sin in my life and muffling the voice of any conviction that I had.  I felt broken, used and not loved at all.  

The first commandment from the ten commandments is “You shall have no other gods before Me.”  We realized how we needed to put God back into proper order in our lives and make our worship and commitment to Him first before any needs or demands that even we had for each other.  We did this by repenting to the Lord, forgiving each other for how we had been treating each other, and then starting to see each other as a cherished child of God instead of as an object or toy.  We both removed porn completely from our lives, and began working with a Chirstian counselor to get healing and deliverance in this area of our lives individually and as a married couple.

“You shall have no other gods before Me.” 
Exodus 20:3 (NIV)


Tip #3: Your Kids Come Third

Putting your children first may seem natural as a parent. However, constantly catering to their every need and want can lead to feelings of entitlement and raise expectations. It's essential to create a balanced dynamic where your kids understand the importance of everyone's needs and respect their parents' time. Make sure to set boundaries and involve your children in decision-making processes. By doing so, you are teaching them valuable life skills and fostering a healthy and respectful relationship.

In today’s society, it can be easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. However, making your family a top priority is vital for creating a strong and happy household. By keeping God first, nurturing your marriage, and balancing your children's needs, you are investing in the well-being of your family and cultivating love and unity. Remember, family is not an obligation; it's a precious gift that deserves our utmost attention and care. So take the time to prioritize your loved ones, and you will reap the rewards of a fulfilled and joyful family life.

If you would want to learn more about this topic, we encourage that you visit our blog, where we frequently post articles about marriage, faith, and personal development.


Part 2 of our interview with Pastors Clint & Jennifer Adams (episode 7) on our podcast, Seeds For Your Marriage where they shared how they cultivated a strong connection in their marriage spanning over three decades and gave a wealth of wisdom on keeping the spark alive. From maintaining a steadfast intention for a thriving family and marriage to aligning on shared interests, they leave no stone unturned as they delve into the heart of marital intimacy.

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Trisha & Thomas Walker have been married for 27+ years, live in the San Francisco Bay Area and have three children. They are relationship coaches and founding Directors of LGLP Ministries, Inc. (Love God Love People), a 501c3 organization since 2014. They were both certified as Couple Communication™ Coaches in 2010 and then as ThriveSphere™ Relationship Map Facilitators in 2020. The minisry’s vision is to see healed and whole families that impact their communities with the love of God to bring restoration, unity, and transformation

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